Revenge porn?

When me and my friend were 17 years old a guy had been texting us on Snapchat and said if we gave him oral sex he would give us alcohol and weed. About a day later asked to hangout again for the same deal. We didn’t want to because we already went to his house and did this two times and I even got really drunk and don’t remember a lot except I threw up a lot and bumped into things there. When my friend said no he said he has a video of us and that we knew what was going on and then we asked what video? And he said you guys would be pissed if we knew what it was and he was using this video as a threat that if we didn’t come over and do this again he would do something with it so she screenshoted the conversation and told him if he doesn’t delete it we will report him to the police. Then he said he was joking and only had a video of me throwing up all over the place? But now we are worried he has a video of us giving head and shared it or is sharing or is going to share it with people? What should we do? I want him to go to jail and the police to delete any videos or pictures he has of us. This whole thing happened in his house. Also, I want his to be charged or go to jail but me and my friend don’t want him to know it was us who reported it or anyone else.


Asked 12 days ago in Ontario
Categories: Criminal Law

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Angelina Shuster

Answer by Angelina Shuster

VerifiedOntario paralegal

Well, if you ask the police not to reveal your names, they won't. So, you can report the guy safely. The question is whether to report, if you are not sure he has the videos? You still may contact the police for harassment. 

Posted 11 days ago

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