Justice Harvey Brownstone

Ontario Family Court Judge

Harvey Brownstone
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Location: Toronto, ON
Practice Area: Family Court Judge

"I believe in helping people understand our family law system with my answers, my book & my show."

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Question asked about 7 years ago

Is there a order or motion I can fill out to have the case postponed or to a later date so I can retain a lawyer ? I live in ontario canada. I am at the point of a 10A Reply; 13.1Financial statement (property and support claims) ; 17A Case conference brie
Question asked about 7 years ago

child support, does it still have to be paid when daughter is pregnant but moved boyfriend into family home?
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Child Support Stop Payment
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Family Court Battle with Children's Aid
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Family Court Judge


35 years


I think that websites such as AdviceScene are a logical extension of the more traditional media outlets such as newspapers, TV and radio, where people turn to for information. In my opinion, lawyers who give of their time and expertise to convey important information about the law are acting in the highest traditions of the legal profession, and are to be commended, because they are enhancing access to justice.

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"Colleague in the Spotlight” award by the Canadian Bar Association Judges Forum, 2010

Tug of War: A Judge's Verdict on Separation, Custody Battles, and the Bitter Realities of Family Court, 2009

Harvey Brownstone is one of the most famous judges in Canada because he has been a trailblazer and a maverick. He has helped reinvent the public image of the judiciary, which has historically refrained from engaging the public outside the walls of the courtroom. Having served as a legal aid lawyer and then as Director of Ontario’s family support enforcement program, he was appointed to the Bench in 1995 at the age of 38 years. His appointment made history because he was the first openly gay judge appointed in Canada. When same-sex marriage became legal in Ontario in 2003, Justice Brownstone made himself publically available to conduct wedding ceremonies for same-sex couples at his court house, as hundreds of lesbian and gay couples from around the world flocked to Canada to avail themselves of the right to be legally married. As a consequence, Justice Brownstone quickly became the face and voice of Canada’s marriage equality laws throughout the world, and was featured in People Magazine, CNN and every major news network in Canada. He has given speeches at many prestigious events and conferences in the USA on the topic of enhancing legal rights for the LGBT community. In October 2003 he was honoured as a “same-sex marriage pioneer” at a gala benefit held by New York’s Civil Marriage Trail. On June 14, 2008 he was again honoured in New York City on the occasion of the 5th anniversary of the legalization of same-sex marriage in Ontario, and he received a Proclamation of Appreciation from the New York State Senate in gratitude for having conducted wedding ceremonies for hundreds of New York same-sex couples. In 2008 Mr. Justice Brownstone was voted “Best Behind-the-Scenes Champion” by the readers of Xtra magazine, in recognition of his efforts to support and enhance human rights for the LGBT community throughout the world. Most recently, Mr. Justice Brownstone is featured in a multi-award winning documentary feature film on same-sex marriage entitled, “Edie and Thea: A Very Long Engagement”, which was broadcast in the USA on the Sundance Channel in December 2009. Mr. Justice Brownstone is best known for being the first and only sitting family court judge in the world to have authored a national best seller that speaks directly to the public about the family justice system. “Tug of War: A Judge’s Verdict on Separation, Custody Battles and the Bitter Realities of Family Court”, was released in February 2009, and has so far spent 13 weeks on the national best seller list. The book, which is now in its 4th printing, was met with instant accolades both within and outside legal circles, because of its compelling message to warring parents, practical advice and penetrating glimpse into the complex maze known as the family court system. Justice Brownstone boldly and unabashedly spreads his compelling message in a frank and refreshing way, urging parents in dispute to put their children’s needs ahead of their own and avoid high conflict litigation whenever possible. Because of the strong media response to “Tug of War”, Mr. Justice Brownstone was catapulted into the national media spotlight, and was featured in every major newspaper, and appeared on over 100 radio and television interview programs, including CBC’s The National, CTV’s Canada AM and W5, TVO’s The Agenda with Steve Paikin (twice), CTS On the Line with Christine Williams, and many others. Justice Brownstone has become one of the most sought-after speakers on the North American lecture circuit, and regularly addresses audiences at educational institutions, conventions for lawyers, mental health professionals, teachers, and the general public. Because of his natural charisma and penchant for “telling it like it is”, and because he is one of the very few judges willing to engage the media and accept public speaking engagements, Mr. Justice Brownstone has become the most famous judge in Canada, and is widely recognized as the face and voice of Canada’s family justice system. Following an intensive 15 month cross-Canada media and speaking tour throughout 2009-2010 to promote “Tug of War”, Justice Brownstone was convinced more than ever of the burgeoning public hunger and need for reliable, useful, easily accessible information about family law, the justice system and a wide variety of issues having to do with relationships, parenting and the wellbeing of children. Building on the strong foundation of public education he created with “Tug of War”, he took the courageous and unprecedented step of elevating his public profile (and that of the judiciary) to a new dimension: the internet. In April 2010 he agreed to host his own online talk show, “Family Matters”, which can be viewed at www.familymatterstv.com. In collaboration with visionary lawyer-entrepreneur Nancy Kinney of AdviceScene, Justice Brownstone has embraced modern technology to provide free online public education in the form of in-depth interviews with a wide variety of professionals, to educate the public about child support, mediation, collaborative law, child protection, and a great many other topics of interest to parents and families and the professionals who work with them. These interviews are easily accessible, presented in plain language and loaded with practical and reliable information. Never before has a member of the judiciary demonstrated the courage, foresight, and talent to break through the barriers of judicial restraint to take the lead in public education. “Family Matters” is a high-quality public education program that should be mandatory viewing for family law professionals, social workers, family counsellors, mental health professionals, and their clients. Although “Family Matters” began filming only in April 2010, Justice Brownstone’s efforts did not go unnoticed by his colleagues. In August 2010 he was awarded the prestigious “Colleague in the Spotlight” award by the Canadian Bar Association Judges Forum, in recognition of his trailblazing efforts to make family law, the justice system and the judiciary more accessible to the public. Mr. Justice Brownstone is also an important philanthropist. He has not received any financial benefit or remuneration from his public education activities. All of the royalties from the sale of “Tug of War” have been directed to the Children’s Wish Foundation, to help grant the wishes of children suffering from life-threatening illnesses. In addition, Justice Brownstone has directed that 25% of the profits from “Family Matters” be donated to the Children’s Wish Foundation.

Family Matters with Justice Harvey Brownstone

Toronto, ON

Video Intro

This is a new kind of talk show, created to educate and enlighten parents and families about issues that are of importance to the modern North American family. Justice Brownstone wants...
This is a new kind of talk show, created to educate and enlighten parents and families about issues that are of importance to the modern North American family. Justice Brownstone wants parents to get the best possible information, directly from a judge, about the realities of family court and the alternatives available to litigation, so that parents could make informed decisions about how to resolve parenting disputes in a way that meets the best interests of their children.